Ken Hellem

The Art of Reinvention

Everything from the book, on one page

If you scanned a code and ended up here, this is the place that has all of it. Every exercise in the book, in the order you meet them, with the online ones linked.

You do not need any of these to read the book. They are here for when you want to do the work rather than read about it.

Eighteen exercises, in the order you meet them. Nine of them have something online. The rest need a pen, a page, and an hour.

Introduction · which kind of reinvention is this?

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What’s Your Reinvention Type?

Ten questions, under five minutes. Which of the four types you are looking at, and, more usefully, what probably does not need to change at all.

kenhellem.com/r/type The Four Types of Reinvention

Acknowledge · noticing something is off

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The Life Report

Score eight categories of your life from one to ten and see the chart it draws. Five minutes, and the result comes by email. The first exercise of the method.

kenhellem.com/r/report Is This It?
3

Define Your Gap

Take the low scores from the Life Report and find out what they are actually about. The label on a category almost never names the real problem.

In the book, pen and paper  Let’s Get Specific
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Admit and Commit

Say the thing out loud to one other person, and commit to what happens next. The shortest exercise in the book and the one people put off longest.

In the book, pen and paper  Hi, I’m Johan and I’m an Alcoholic

Rediscover · who you actually are

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That’s Just How She Is

Ask the people who knew you before you learned to perform. What they say about you without thinking is usually closer than anything on your CV.

In the book, pen and paper  Who Are You? Really?
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Introduce Yourself Without a Title

Two minutes about who you are, with no job title, no employer and no industry allowed. Harder than it sounds, and the difficulty is the point.

In the book, out loud  Don’t Buy a Van
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The True Self Archetypes

Finds the pattern you were born with by asking who you were as a child, not who you have become. Gives you a primary and a secondary archetype, and the gap between who you are and what your life is asking you to be.

kenhellem.com/r/trueself Your True Self Archetype
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All thirteen archetypes, in detail

The long read on each one: childhood patterns, how it shows up at work, the shadow side, and how to tell whether it is really you.

kenhellem.com/r/archetypes Your True Self Archetype
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Flip It

Your core values, found through what annoys you. List the things that irritate you about other people, then turn each one over. The value is usually on the other side.

kenhellem.com/r/values Your Core Values
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Draw Your Ikigai

The four circles, online. Braindump, then send one link and ask your friends what you are great at. Polish it into a one-pager with your values and your archetype in the corners. Do it by hand first if you can.

kenhellem.com/r/ikigai Ikigai: Finding Your Purpose

Get Inspired · getting out of your own head

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50 Lunches Exercise 1: Create the list

A page in your journal headed 50 Lunches. The obvious people first, then broader, then unreasonable. Twenty to thirty names, and leave room for the ones you have not thought of yet.

In the book, pen and paper  You Can’t Think Your Way to a New Life
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50 Lunches Exercise 2: Reach Out

A practice round with people you already know, then batches of five. Includes the wording, the warm introductions, and the cold approach to the ones nobody will introduce you to.

In the book  50 Lunches
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50 Lunches Exercise 3: Have the Conversation

One hour, four parts. Intro, interview, brainstorm, ending. Say plainly that you are not asking for a job, then walk them through your Ikigai in five minutes.

In the book  50 Lunches
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50 Lunches Exercise 4: Find the Pattern

Five sets of notes on one table, read three times. What repeats, where you got excited, and everything you explained away. That last pass is usually a belief rather than an obstacle.

In the book, pen and paper  When the Lunches Become Data
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How to do your own 50 Lunches

All four exercises in one post, for when you would rather have it on a screen than flick between chapters.

kenhellem.com/r/50lunches 50 Lunches

Sense · trying it before you decide

14

The Dress Rehearsal

Run a small, real, time-boxed version of the option you are considering, then judge it. Four possible verdicts at the end: Continue, Adapt, Move on, Redirect.

In the book, in real life  The Dress Rehearsal
15

The Obvious Choice

For when the analysis has stopped helping. A way of finding the answer you have already arrived at without noticing.

In the book, pen and paper  Decision Time

Embrace · becoming the new one

16

Your Three Acts

Your reinvention as a three-act story. Who you were and why that life no longer fit, what you tried and learned, and who you are now, present tense. Then read it to camera in one take.

In the book, write it  Let Me Reintroduce Myself
17

The Courtroom of Limiting Beliefs

Put the belief on trial. Prosecution, defence, evidence on both sides, and a verdict you have to write down.

In the book, pen and paper  Is It Really True?
18

Three Scenarios

Worst case, best case, base case, written out in that order with a plan under each. No percentages. The question is whether the downside is survivable yet.

In the book, pen and paper  Make It a Living

Listen and read · the things the book points at

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Paige’s episode

The dark night of the soul, told by the person who went through it. Episode 1 of The Art of Reinvention.

kenhellem.com/r/paige The Dark Night of the Soul
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The 50 Lunches podcast

Fifty conversations with people who changed something. The reason the Get Inspired section exists.

kenhellem.com/r/lunches You Can’t Think Your Way to a New Life
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The post this grew out of

What I wrote in 2017, the year I got fired and drew four circles in a notebook.

kenhellem.com/r/purpose Ikigai: Finding Your Purpose
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Mary Alice’s episode

She and her family moved to the South of France having never been there. Why moving across the world does not on its own make you someone else. Episode 5 of The Art of Reinvention.

kenhellem.com/r/maryalice Becoming Who You Are

The three that moved to the blog · from Make It a Living

The first version of that chapter went much deeper into money and job hunting. It turned the last stage of the book into a small business course, so it moved here, where it stays current.

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Reducing the risk

Runway, the arithmetic behind it, and how to work out what you can actually afford before you jump.

kenhellem.com/r/risk Make It a Living
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Getting hired

What the application pile looks like from the other side, and what to do instead of throwing a CV into it.

kenhellem.com/r/blackhole Make It a Living
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Working for yourself

Finding the first customer, pricing the problem rather than your insecurity, and the economics nobody warns you about.

kenhellem.com/r/selling Make It a Living

When you are done

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Stay in touch

The newsletter, the podcast, and how to reach me. If the book was useful, I would like to know which part.

kenhellem.com/r/ken

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